How to be a Romantic Couple?

It’s truly said ‘Matches are made in Heaven’ and it is the trust, bond, emotions and of course romance between the couples which keep their love alive for several years. Romance between the couples is an ever growing activity. Romantic couples are judged by their behavior and passion for each other. A romantic couple never wait for any certain moment to show their love for each other. There love for each other remains the same either before marriage or after marriage.

For some romance is easy but in reality it is not. Several things are to be known for being romantic. Here are some tips to become the most romantic couple:

  • Plan out a date every weekend.
  • Dancing under the dim lights at your house is pretty romantic.
  • A romantic couple does something beyond pampering each other. They create a connection with each other by telling the truth. A romantic couple would always share their true feelings and expressions for each other.
  • Share the importance of relation with each other. Appreciate yourself and your partner for carrying such a beautiful relation.
  • Make your partner realize that you want to spend some romantic time with them.
  • Try and speak your partner’s love language as it would make easier for you to create a perfect romantic aura with him or her.
  • A romantic couple would never shy to hold hands in public.

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Love and Sex

Love is an intense positive feeling towards a person, place or thing that involves showing that feeling in a positive way towards the object of the love. True Love is explained elsewhere and involves more.

Sex are the actions animals (we will leave plants and other forms of life out of this for now) do to satisfy the basic ingrained drive to reproduce and make more of themselves. Since humans are animals (nope, not minerals or vegtebles), we have varying degrees of sex drive.

When you have sex it does not mean there is love. Some people just have sex because it brings them pleasure or attention … or both. Some do it just because they are bored, need money, enjoy sex, want attention, want acceptence, or are drunk. The best way to have sex is with someone you LOVE, when the time is right.

Make sure you know the difference! Do not confuse someone you Love to have sex with (meaning you love the sex action) with someone who you love.

When you love someone, it does not mean you need to have sex. When you are a loving couple, you do not need to have sex. If one or both of a couple want sex, then it is becomes a factor of a relationship. For a couple of age who love each other sex is a normal part of a relationship.

So, Guys…Love and sex are different things! ;-)

more resources: Love is Great blog page.

Daily Romantic Surprise!

Here are some tips on how to keep the romance in your relationship:

Remember Snail Mail?
Buy (or make) a sweet and simple card. Write a sentence or two about what he means to you…just because…and MAIL it… everyone loves mail, and everyone loves sweet reminders!

Special Surprises
One of the most romantic things you can do is to make your partner a special surprise. Fill the room full of candles. It’s very romantic!

Open Your Heart
Often the greatest way to show your love is by giving someone your trust. Open up and tell your mate something about you that no one else knows. It’s a sure fire way to let them know how special they are and how much they mean to you.

Random Gifts
Everyone loves receiving gifts, especially if they’re unexpected, no matter how big or small – anything will do!

Kiss A Day
Kiss your life partner daily before you go to sleep even if your terms not good. If you are unable to kiss today tomorrow you give two.

Sure you can think of many more romantic tips to show your love – this should give you some good ideas! ;-)

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The Cornerstones of Relationship

For a relationship to have a solid foundation to build on you need:

  • Caring about each other
  • Respect for each other needs
  • Communication between each other needs
  • Turth with each other on all things big and small
  • Commitment to each other and the relationship you have

Caring, Respect, Communication, Truth and Commitment
Simple, but trully needed in a sound relationship! ;-)

more resources: Love is Great blog page.


Relationship Jokes

Need a break from the seriousness of a relationship? We all need a laugh once in awhile! Check out our ever-expanding collection of relationship jokes, sure to crack a few laughs.

Tips for using relationship jokes:

  • Send a funny relationship joke via email or text message to give them a chuckle on a bad day.
  • Write a love note (and include a funny relationship joke) and put in it their lunch or briefcase to find while at work.
  • Add a relationship joke to your wedding celebration – in the invitation, thank you cards, or on your reception tables!
  • Call their voicemail and leave a relationship joke message so they get a laugh when they get the message.

Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greather than your need for each other.

Good relationship are good for you! ;-)

Love

Two friends are discussing the possibility of love. “I thought I was in love three times,” one friend says.

“How so?” his friend asks.

“Five years ago I deeply cared for a woman who wanted nothing to do with me.”

“Was that not love?” his friend asks.

“No,” he replies. “That was obsession. And then two years ago I deeply cared for an attractive woman who didn’t understand me.”

“Was that not love?”

“No,” he replies. “That was lust. And just last year I met a woman aboard a cruise ship to the Caribbean. She was smart, funny, and a great conversationalist. And everywhere I followed her on that boat, I would get this strange sensation in the pit of my stomach.”

“Was that not love?” his friend asks.

“No,” he replies. “That was motion sickness.” :-)

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Thingking of Sending Roses to Loved One

Thinking of sending roses to a loved one, but not sure what color to send? ;-)

  • RED is for Love, Passion, Respect and Courage
  • WHITE is for Innocence, Purity, Secrecy
  • YELLOW is for Joy, Friendship
  • CORAL is for Desire
  • LIGHT PINK is for Grace, Gladness, Joy
  • DARK PINK is for Thankfulness
  • LAVENDER is for Love at First Site, Enchantment
  • ORANGE is for Fascination

Loving Without Losing Yourself!

You are in love and it feels wonderful. This love is different and you are prepared to do anything to make it last. To prevent this ship from sinking you work hard to steer this relationship into a safe harbor. In the process you lose yourself and your romantic relationship becomes all-consuming!

When in love, how do you preserve your identity and course in life when? Here is the number one reason for losing yourself in a relationship: Your belief that love is something you either deserve or not! Your misguided belief leads you to counterproductive efforts to do almost anything to get love and even more to hold onto it:

  • You modify your identity to gain approval and love from your partner.
  • You hold back intimacy to protect your vulnerability.
  • You have a need to manipulate your partner and the course of this relationship.
  • Your fear of abandonment paralyzes you

Yet, in reality, love either exists or it doesn’t. There is nothing you have to be, or do, to earn it. When it is love, there is very little if anything you can do to destroy it. If there is no love, there is nothing you can do to force it. Love is something that you deserve and if you can believe that, you will accept that:

  • You can be loved even if you are not perfect
  • You can be loved just as you are
  • You can be loved while keeping your course in life
  • You can be loved without getting lost in love
  • You can be loved while pursuing your life’s dreams
  • You can be loved, let go and let be

Love is the most powerful human lesson you are ever to learn. It is about overcoming the past and realizing your human potential, a purposeful interdependence through which you become so much more than on your own.

Once you can understand that love is not something to be found, rather it is in you to be shared, you can love wholeheartedly without fear. Don’t turn your back on love every time it touches you, because when you give up on love you give up on yourself.

posted by: Allie Ochs.

Thoughts On Love

Love is the word that makes one go into dreams of bliss and the word that can take one into pain. It all depends, how your love turned out. If you were stabbed in the back, pain will be the result and if you got loyalty, it will be pleasure. When one looks at the scenes of destruction of ones love, when one revisits the places where love had blossomed, below the flowering trees, one goes in to the memories of the lost love. It hurts and it hurts very badly. Similarly the love that enriches us can be invaluable. It gives a new breath, a new life. Love can give life and when lost, life may be lost. Call it addiction to love or whatever, love is a feeling that cannot be described in words. it has to be felt.

We hear about many break-ups and separations. What happened to the love that brought the couple together in the beginning? How can ex lovers talk of revenge? In love, there is no revenge. If your beloved stabs you in the back, you will not ask for revenge, because you loved and you still love. As I have yet to talk to someone who stabbed the beloved, I do not know about his or her thinking, but it must be that of – how could I do this? Or may be they are so evil that they applaud themselves for their backstabbing!

Love is sublime. Love gives power. Love gives determination. In love, many lovers do what they could never dream of. Empires have been sacrificed for love. Battles have been fought for love. Love has ruled mankind since ages. Those who experience love are truly lucky.

more resources: Your Romance Guide Home page.

Dictionary of Dating

DATING:
The process of spending enormous amounts of money, time, and energy to get better acquainted with a person whom you don’t especially like in the present and will learn to like a lot less in the future.

EASY:
A term used to describe a woman who has the morals of a man.

EYE CONTACT:
A method utilized by a single woman to communicate to a man that she is interested in him. Despite being advised to do so, many women have difficulty looking a man directly in the eyes, not necessarily due to the shyness, but usually due to the fact that a woman’s eyes are not located in her chest.

FRIEND:
A member of the opposite sex who has some flaw which makes sleeping with him/her totally unappealing.

INDIFFERENCE
A woman’s feeling toward a man that is interpreted by the man as “playing hard to get.”

IRRITATING HABIT:
What the endearing little qualities that initially attract two people to each other turn into after a few months together.

NYMPHOMANIAC:
A man’s term for a woman who wants to do it more often than he does.

SOBER
A condition in which it is almost impossible to fall in love.

ATTRACTION:
The act of associating horniness with a particular person.

LOVE AT 1st SIGHT:
What occurs when two extremely horny, but not entirely choosy people meet.

LAW OF RELATIVITY:
How attractive a given person appears to be is directly proportionate to how unattractive your date is.

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